Your Cinderella without her Fairy god-mother.

Have you seen some couple and a look at them, you wonder "what did he see in her?" Well, it is obvious its exactly what you didn't see. Man is mostly good at judging each other by outward appearance because that's what they have access to see at first look. But when it comes to relationships, you'll need more than beauty to enjoy being with each other. Remember the saying "beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder." In essence, it is not necessarily the outward appearance that determines how beautiful a woman is but her personality/attitude/character. Everything that makes her human.

Haven't you heard not to trust a woman's beauty because they're mostly buried in layers of make up. I still do laugh over jokes about everything the woman presents to the world  being fake, the nails, hair, eye brows/lashes and even the pad for the buttocks and breast etc. So our men need to look or should continue to look beyond the physical to what lies beneath. That's who the woman is. Of a truth, all that God created are beautiful. So are you. Whether big/slim/thin or bony, what lies within her soul is what defines her beauty.

If perfect's what you're searching for, then just stay the way you are. Cheers!