Wednesday, September 02, 2015

Child Sex Education: Why Should Parents Bother when it is an In-built Instinct in Man?

The need for child sex education is on the increase as the society is becoming more advance each day. We all, do have shocking and usual stories to tell about child sex, if given a chance. You hear of a 5years old child having sex (I don't know if it qualifies as that.) with a 3years old and more shocking is when you are told she or he isn't the first person the act has been carried out with. After much persuasions, you find there have been older ones. Then, you wonder how? where when... endless questions that you may hate to hear the answer.


Sometimes, wondering how these children get to be involved is pointless because you can just think of biology; you'll realise the instincts built in man, have you seen a young boy sensitive part be firm when he's being bathed or easing himself? of course you should have, its biology at work. And then look at the society, starting from the home environment, where children are exposed to all manners of movies with such scenes. Even the cartoons aren't completely innocence these days.
 
As parents, what and how do you tell such child of such tender age about the act. With which words will you be able to explain the need to avoid such things when a schoolmate talks about it and make them understand without embarrassing yourself or looking foolish before them? Are questions that have held some parents back. Not to mention of ignorance. Inspite of all the questions there's need for sex education to be taught to young children. Simply start by
- Telling them not to let anyone touch them in their sensitive parts (there are 101 names that have being given to it, that will have you rolling on the floor when you hear them.)
- Tell them the truth about questions they ask, in that respect
- Screen the kind of movies they watch, even the cartoon. Don't think he/she's a child. what does he know? if you're told, yon just may faint. So, parents learn to protect your children early enough from sexual molestation tomorrow. If you've got a better idea, kindly drop your comment. Its actually everyone's duty to create a better future for the forth coming generation. Cheers!

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