Welcome to the era of the hourglass shape, waist training or hips don't lie ladies. If you haven't got it, you aren't a real woman. So go hide yourself lol! Nah! You know that's just me exaggerating. There are still lots of women who are very proud and confident in the fearful and wonderful way God has created them(Psalm 139:14). Moi happens to be in that club but there's a need to keep fit and stay healthy. Also, its important to know every woman is a REAL woman, irrespective of your shape. Yes! Genevieve Nnaji, Mercy Johnson and whole lots of others may have got the killer shape but still have just two X chromosomes like the slim, thin, fat lady out there. Because it is what we have on the inside that classifies us as a group (women) despite the many physical features that are consistent with our kind.
There shouldn't be a need to kill yourself because you haven't gotten a particular shape. Its sad when I read or hear news of women's death in an attempt to add or subtract from a particular body part. It can't be denied some women confident is built on their outward look but the truth still remains that: the beauty of a woman isn't/shouldn't be judged by the outward appearance but what lies beneath.
So how does a woman shape defines her? - what sets women apart irrespective of their shapes is CONFIDENCE and the Way they DRESSES. Funny enough; sometimes, the women we so admire because of the strong air of confidence they carry about them and their full shape may just be wearing one or more clothing under their outfit Lol! Of course! You may doubt it because the message "I'm looking good and I know it" has being sent and we believed it.
In essence, that same confidence can be reflected by having a good sense of dressing and appreciating who are you are, irrespective of your body size. Being the "A" shape, "V" shape, "H" shape, "8" shape, "Oval" shape or The Ruler. You're beautiful the way you are. Just learn to be the beholder of your own beauty and keep keeping fit. Cheers!
Confidence is key...no matter the shape. Someone out there will still love you for you.
ReplyDeleteThat's it! We all are beautiful. Thanks for spending these moments here.
DeleteI think we need to know that no matter what our size, colour, looks....God loves us. Wonderful post, thank you so much for sharing. If someone doesn't love us for who we are, inside and out, then they are not worth having as a friend or mate.
ReplyDeleteRight on point. Thanks for spending these moments here.
DeleteBrilliant post...if only we could all learn to look beyond physical appearance, to the inner person...maybe then the world would finally begin to heal...:)
ReplyDeleteThank you so much for your visit...it has led me to your beautiful blog! :))
Oh Ygraine! I'm glad you liked it. Its awesome having you spend some moments here. And hopefully will continue dropping by each other blog. Cheers!
DeleteI love this post...Carriage is what define a woman regardless of how you look, they way you carry yourself really matters.
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Yes darling. People will treat you the way you present yourself to them.
ReplyDeleteHahahahaha..."The Ruler" really rocks yea, especially the way they exude confidence (I used to wonder where it came from, until...). Another hit ma; keep on!
ReplyDeleteTruth be said dear u right but our society is playing a negative effect on how we pick our ladies dis days even friends and sometimes family members will rather u go for the hour glass girl even without knowing her other sides
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