Situation - Stay days without communication
Relationship - Communicates daily or within days
Situation - Love is expressed when things are rosy
Relationship - Love is expressed at all time
Situation - Feels trapped and frustrated
Relationship - Feels loved and appreciated
Situation - Promises are easily broken leading to misunderstanding.
Relationship - Promises are easily kept
Situation - Hardly make plans together
Relationship - Plan together
Situation - Complain and blame each other for wrong doing
Relationship - Discuss issues and compromise
Situation - When walking together, one is usually a step behind or ahead
Relationship - Usually walk side by side
Situation - Sees each other as an OPTION (any relationship is better than no relationship).
Relationship - Sees each other as an asset (a good relationship or no relationship)
Every "situation" you find yourself can become a great relationship, if both parties are willing to accept their short comings. Together, you can work it out. For those that have gotten it right, it can only get better. Cheers!!!
It all depends on what individuals want in their life.....some persons are more suited to situations rather than relationship.
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