The Blind Between Love & Sex

Love supposedly is the bedrock of every relationship, the foundation and keeper. With it in place, every relationship should and can withhold the test of time. Love can be expressed with words and through actions. The medium of expression between couples has usually being judged by the respect, trust each accord to each other and of course, through the intercourse *winks* I wasn't about to leave that out. Love, I've grown to know, is beautiful and the basis in which sacrifices and compromise has been made - even the sacrifices of life. Don't even think of doubting because I've read stories of people committing suicide because the woman/man they care about dumped them. Sometimes they end up even committing murder and suicide.

Love and sex are to flow together as strongly as the ocean current, generating and keeping the spark sparkling. Beautiful as the rays of the sun touch on the blue sea. Hmmm! In D'banj's voice "Love is a beautiful thing." How and who you love comes naturally. You aren't going to get to buy love but I can't deny, it can be faked. These days, absolutely everything can be faked. Even a man's feelings, character, views etc. But I can't and won't be writing/saying that about sex.
In this world, sex has become cheaper than the 1kobo coin because some people are ready to offer it for free. It has gotten to the point of fighting to make sex sale a legal business. In other words, our men aren't going to have to lovingly put their women in the mood for it. If you play hard to get, they walk to get it the easy way. Funny enough, without legalization, women are fighting to keep their men to themselves that I'm forced to wonder what will happen if it is ever legalized.

Ladies and gentlemen, sex was created by God as an expression of love between couples, which they are free to enjoy in marriage (1 Conrinthians 7:1-40) and then comes the eating of the 'forbidden fruit' and civilization, which has led to the decadence of sexual morality. There are people wishing for more respect to be accorded to this act (which is an art, when expressed in love) but probably too scared to speak up in order not to be shut down by the 'majority votes' (though its not PDP and APC).
I stand with the 'minority' that believe that lovemaking should not be separated from love, but I believe also that marriage is the culmination of love, and not orgasm (you love her, marry her). Call me "archaic" but I believe in the safety and sanctity of Sex ONLY IN MARRIAGE - and not BEFORE marriage, BECAUSE OF marriage, or to SECURE marriag, cheers!