Today's Single Woman: What Men Expect From You and What You Should Give in Return - 1

Today's single woman privileged to be civilized but morally questionable. And this has given our men and the society the upper hand to shove down her throat their expectations. Of course! I agree with you, I can't say that about everyone but then, if you know of a thing going wrong and don't say or do nothing about it;  its also questionable. In this situation, every woman is a victim of a crime committed against herself in one way or the other. So, what do men expects from today’s single woman and what should she give in return?

                                         Cheap Sex                 

      In our world today, we've gotten to a stage whereby first date = first sexual entanglement. while wait when you're still going to do it later. Besides all your nerves endings are clamouring for it. Come on now! you are attracted to each other and automatically your hands and emotion got a mind of their own. The tiny crawling butterflies in the pit of your stomach need to fly high. What lies..... oh, let me butter it a little by asking what excuse(s) have you had to be told to feel better in being cheap and easy (2 Corinthians 2:11). Oops! I've asked the question. Well, they say " Women are moved by what they hear." Your opinion maybe different and probably wish you could crucify me for this Lol! Easy, because I'm still going to write that;  in our present society, if a lady tells a man she’s a virgin and probably will want to remain that way, he’d look at her like she has grown two horns on her head or the entire demons in her village have taken possession of her. Especially when a twelve years old girl purity is easily doubted.
        Of course the Christendom isn't even a hiding place as many will think or how else do you explain a dear, tongue-speaking, morally upright brother in a service unit impregnating a sister in that same unit. And to pepper it up, he says; “I’m not the only one having sex with her, so, how can I be sure I’m the father?” A billion dollar question, I believe my dear sister will take ages in answering out of the confusion she might be having within her. Funny enough; the question of how she got herself in that situation becomes as big as the one of who the father is. Need I remind you; women are the ones expected to cry over the spilled milk. Yet! More and more women are falling victim of their own emotional impotency. If you're still wondering about how cheap sex is; Look around and tell me who occupies brothels? Women, in large numbers. I haven't seen a brothel yet where the male folks reside and a woman can go pay for a session. How long do we need to lie on our back like cows being taken to the slaughter? The first man came, made lot of promises and you believed, gave all that's dear to you. yet! he still vanished when he has had enough or better offer came up. So did the second, third and you've probably lost count but you're still not wiser. I guess you keep hoping 'this time may be different' well nothing will change if you keep giving them what they expects from you. Hmm! What then should you give in place of cheap sex?
                                                            No Sex 
     As much as I would have loved to say some people, I’ll rather go with most people no longer hold dear the value of sex after the vows (I may not have carried out a scientific or educational research but try sampling the opinion of ten people on 'no vows, no sex' then you'll realize you need no research to draw your conclusion). Besides, what sells faster than even the speed of light is 'sexiness' and its everywhere you care to look. 'If you share a different opinion then you're nothing but a lost ship floating back to the stone age. Yes! civilization has long passed that stage. If you aren't willing to give, someone else is ready to make a grab for it, actually, him.' So I've heard many people say to me.
      This has got me confused for a long time now because civilization/westernization comes with "Christianity" preaching the bed undefiled; And even every other religion preaches same. I do know that traditionalist uses virgins (signifies purity) to carryout their annual sacrifices to their gods. So I asked; who are we listening to? Definitely not our fore-fathers or the God we serve. Look at it this way; You had sex with the first, second man etc but today, you're no more together. What does that tell you? Sex isn't what will keep him  because he can easily get that from anywhere/everywhere. But  that which he have to search for, yes! your inner being that can complement his existence as a man; your inner light that can brighten his dark night, Your beauty which lies within you that he needs to overcome the ugliness of the world sometimes; his need which only you can honourably satisfy. And when such a man comes into your life, a moving train can't even stop him from giving you that honour in marriage. Cheers!