Thoughts to get you to Wrought Great Works.

The dew is not rain but its impact is felt in the morning by the wet and water dripping leaves and even manages to get humans soaked too. 

Get Favoured in Labour.

 

For you to find favour, you must be willing to put in the labour. An old school mate, Odebala Otomerefe Tommy  (photo above)shares personal insight on 'how it works' to keep you on the right track.  

The Chip to Strengthen Relationships.

Building ‘great relationships’ takes time and energy and not cost you material but also immaterial things. This is because the materials possess the ability to feel and chose where and how to fit in or not.

Finding the Provision to Reach the Destination of your Vision.

Do you have a vision? Now, be careful to answer. Because there are people wearing themselves out trying to fulfil a vision God hasn’t given to them. This could be to score or prove a point to someone or base on their lifestyle. Remember, vision is about doing what God has empowered you to do.

Ways not to Wiggle and get Tangled in Sexual Relationship.

We know that it takes two to tango, so it is when it comes to mating. However, some ladies have had reasons to complain about their bodies been violated at one point in time. They necessarily didn’t use the word ‘rape’ although that’s what it should be called but viewed it as taking out of context the general belief that ‘a woman’s no is a actually a yes’. And believe, she wants it the hard way, putting up a fight being a turn on.

Where should the Flame of Cheating Blame go?

The epidemic of infidelity in relationships has truly eaten deep into many homes and motivational speaker, Perseverance Chamunokara shared a post on her Facebookpage (photo above) to sensitise women with focus on single ladies and wrote “EVERY WOMAN DESERVES TO BE WITH HER OWN MAN.  NEVER DESIRE A MAN WHO IS TAKEN, LET HIM KEEP HIS COMMITMENT TO THE ONE HE CHOSE TO MARRY AND WAIT PATIENTLY FOR YOUR OWN TO FIND YOU!” But her followers defied and chose to apportion the blame to everyone. Read their responses after the cut  

Friday Series: How could Relationship Destroy Friendship - 2

Previously on Friday Series we looked at the above topic in one context, click here if you missed it. Today, we will view it from another context based on the true life story as shared on social media sometime ago of how a good friendship was destroyed when a new relationship was forged. This story will probably leave you with many questions to wonder about what the answer should be just as did me but then when it comes to relationship, friendship might not be able to withstand the hold.

Snap out of it: Don’t let the Fog Clog your Focus.

Previously on Snap out of it click here. Let’s run this series on ‘staying focus’ by Revered Bob Gass as Thursday Snap out of it which will take us for five weeks unless otherwise occurs. This should enable us not to let little discomfort distract us from great achievement.

How not to Base Criticism on Cynicism.

Yeah! It’s alright if you think someone is not good at what they do, so long it encourages you to do better in what you do because it won't be right trying to set others straight when you too are bent over.

Please Help! Little Khadija is still missing, spread the word.

Some days ago, two-year and seven months old, Khadija Umar got kidnapped in Abuja and she’s yet to be found. Read story here. The family needs all the help they can get. Be kind not to relent or forget about talking about this little girl. Keep her in your prayers until she’s found. I pray the Lord keep us from every trouble we help others overcome. Keep spreading the words. Many blessings.

The Restitute of a Prostitute Dignity.

It is such a delight the Lord doesn’t see us as we or men see us. In the beginning He saw everything He created was good Genesis 1:34 and when He saw otherwise, His son came to set things right John 3:16. Our lives are absolutely not subject to men’s judgement but that of our merciful God.

How to Bloom when Gloom loom too.

 

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Don’t stop: I’ve got to just remind you of this song (Go Ahead) lyric by Ron Kenoly, “if you catch hell, don’t hold it, if you going through hell, don’t stop. You go ahead and go ahead.” Isaiah 54:17. Everything bows to God. Everything! Do not be deceived, dismayed, nor discouraged. In the end, GOD WILL have His way! Joshua 1:19".

A Piece for my Heart’s Peace - 7

Previously, on A Piece for my Heart's Peace click SIX . This is definitely not the post I had in mind for today. I was forced to change my mind when my friend’s barely 3years old daughter got kidnapped in Abuja yesterday and he had to cry out for help on social media (Facebook precisely). Click here to read about it.

ATTENTION PLEASE! Help Find Little Khadija, She was Snatched today by an unknown Woman in Abuja.

You know the height of fearful occurrences and infliction of pain on the innocent in this world can't chill. Don't only come to social media  to watch pictures, snoop and laugh. Be useful today. Help find little Khadija Umar. She was snatched two hours ago by a woman in Kuje, Abuja. Khadija is Two years and seven months old. The parents are crying out for help to reunite with her.

How to Bloom when Gloom loom.

Daily, there are lessons to learn from occurrences in life. Some of such occurrences could result to breaking down or lifting up. It is never always easy neither is it always difficult. It is like a climb up the slope. Going up is more difficult than coming down and just as it is simple to destroy but never easy to build.

Friday Series: How could Relationship Destroy Friendship?

Friday is here, and the question above have got many ways to be viewed but we will start from one angle and see how far it takes us; The potency of the bond shared between individuals in friendship and in a relationship could be just as strong but on different context. In friendship there’s a limit/bound to how far one could go in commitment but in a relationship bounds are supposed to be broken and exceeded.

The Barbaric Aggression to Hunger Repression.

The tears couldn’t be held back when I read about the 7-year-old boy that was burnt for stealing garri (cassava dust). With a sad smile I decided to write this in dedication to him. I pray his family be comforted and counsel by the Holyspirit and may God judge him with mercy and cause his soul to find a peaceful rest.

Smiles!

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Smiles: The easiest way to put oneself and others at ease, a show of understanding and acceptance of a person, thing or situation. The ease at which it is given could save a soul and the withholding of it could destroy one too. It is the reflection of our inner strength, beauty, courage, emotions etc.

Children not Brides Series Finale: Bride with no Pride - 3

Children Not Brides.
(The Menace Called Child Marriage).
Series 3 (Finale)
Previously on Children not Brides Series, click here

Children not Brides Series: Bride with no Pride - 2.

Children Not Brides.
(The Menace Called Child Marriage).
Series 2.

How to Rattle the Battle for a Win.

In every fight you beat or get beaten. And eventually there must a winner (victor) and loser (victim) in a battle. However, to always win battles learn to rattle it up by being:

A Piece for my Heart’s Peace - 6.

Previously on A Piece for my Heart’s Peace click here: A generation where too many people believe they are vast in knowledge will surely be limited because the question of who will be the teachers and learners will be tossed around or what will one learn when they already know it all? And such a generation will be sin infested.

Children not Brides Series: Bride with no Pride - 1.

Children Not Brides.
(The Menace Called Child Marriage).
Series 1

Update: How not to Sweep Drugs under the Rug, Addicts share Experiences with Brandon Stanton.

It isn’t expected to be easy but to bring ease from the entire emotional trauma in life. If they could do it, you can too. Put fear at the rear and you’ll find the redemptive measures over that addictive habit. Click here to watch video on how not to sweep drugs under the rug. More after the cut

Video: How not to Sweep Drugs under the Rug.

I hope this video will be able to help someone. There will be a time to fall short of excuses of an addict inability to stop using drugs and I pray it doesn’t come too late. Watch video after the cut. 

The Nation with Good Education.

Good education helps nations rise from the ashes. This will only be possible when what is learned is applied but in this country of ours, where many say they crammed their way through school and the teachers prefer to be bribed to give good grades, I wonder the possibility of it. Did I fail to mention poor learning infrastructure or materials? or the already unstable educational policies, standards and reforms still tend to change base on people's personal interest.

Friday.com: Could Romance wear a Mask?

Okay Friday don come! As usual let’s take a look at dicing relationship matters. I don’t know how right I am to say this; there’s the belief that when someone wants something from his or her partner they tend to be extra/extremely caring and all lovey dovey.

Ehn Choice: Get your Mood Bleached or get Leached.

We rarely do this but after going through Precious Emelogu 20 times he got blown away by twitter I knew I just can’t be the only one to get my mood bleached/lightened up, especially in this season of recession lol, anyway, I can't loose my sense of humour/joy neither should you. More after the cut. 

Snap out of it! Memories of the Past don't have to Last long.

Of course! By now you’ve learned that everyone has got a past. Now, I don’t mean the good ones. I am referring to those moments that tragically changed one's whole idea about too many things in life. That has defined the person you’ve become today and you’ve tried or trying but just can’t get through the pain. The memories are just stuck in the shadow keeping you trapped or bond.

A Piece for my Heart's Peace - 5.

There's a gradual and general deadness to the preaching of righteousness and holiness which is to encompass the well being of every Christian. The worse thing is a believer with the attitude of unbeliever, in pursuit of grandeur in which many claim to have been called to be ministers of the gospel.

Which of these Men Actions Deserve a Kiss or Hiss?

I’d like us to loosen up a little with this post today. We do know men have their different ways of expressing their feelings or the deep one called ‘love’ towards the lady in their lives. So let’s view which of these men’s action you will give a kiss or hiss to. We don’t want to look at the extreme kindness or badness. But some dicing circumstances. Here we go!

Friday.com: Could there be a Cleaving without Leaving?

I was right in front of my PC trying to yet find the lost words to continue the post to express the root of every truth in a man and woman relationship which is centred on my much respect for the spirit of the institution of no graduation. The ability to have a clear picture of the nature of marriage as a choice or an act of nature visited upon humans, when I bumped into Kemi Oyedepo post which cuts clean to the chase that could clear your misunderstanding. Read post after the cut. 

The Need to Recognise the Outstanding Deed of a Nigerian Doctor.

I’ve seen this photo on some certain site but definitely not the ones consider as the “big fish” and like  some others I wonder why?

Snap out of it: Is the Rattle of Water in the Kettle for nothing?

Anger is like the boiling water rattling in the kettle. The more it boils the faster it reduces. It just can't be able to resist the heat until it completely dries up.

Posits on the Opposite of Life Situations.

Sour taste is to make you value sweetness

Failure to make you understand the essence of success

The lessons of the past to make you avoid repeating future mistakes

The ugliness to make you understand where beauty lies

10 Things to Remember in November.

10 things you need to remember in this month of November to intensify the growth of a better you as outlined by Pastor Lola George Akoke  (photo above).

My Wishful Wist.

Oh dear beauty!

The one that gives rhythm

to my heart beat.

The regulator of my body’s temperature.

The one that brightens my skin colour.

The fire that burns within me.

My wistful wish.