I recently read an article on a dear friend blog and got schooled reading each sentence. After a while I got thinking if there's any one-woman man existing on planet earth? Can any woman boldly say " I'm the only woman in my man's life?" or can any man say " Its me and just my woman, no else can be as attractive to me as her?" Well, it'll be difficult to find 1 out of 10 I guess. And the 'why' question becomes a mystery. I'm actually wondering what have I got to write that you haven't read or heard before? But I just can't help as my fingers keep typing away just to remind you of what you've known and buried in your subconscious. What's the excuse? Too many attractive women around that are willing to offer the satisfaction you crave?....
We are not trying to say God made a mistake in saying to the man and woman to go and multiply. Even then, he just created them one man and one woman, not one man and 2,3.... women (Genesis 1:26-31), despite the need to multiply and increase. But today, we've got the house wives, mistresses/concubines/side-chicks stringing along in most relationships. It was a hard job for Adam to deal with one woman but today's men do not bother with such worries. Yet we worry why our generation has grown to be the way it is today.
We seem to forget, the woman led to the lost of the garden, Samson lost his strength because of a woman infact his encounter with women (Judges 14& 16), David killed because of a woman and had many children from these women that ended turning against him (2Samuel 11 & 15), Solomon was estranged to other gods because of women and lost the kingdom (1Kings 11). Why am I referring to the days of the bible is; today, so many men are losing their lives, senses, wealth because of their inability to stick to one woman and also polluting the society with children from such affairs, lacking the warmth of a true home. Haven't you heard in most research, such people constitute the entire folks causing calamity in our society today. And there's no shame in the act. The single gentleman will boast of the chains of girlfriends/baby mamas; the married man will boast of his chains of mistresses and you look around for that one-woman man but probably find none.
I agreed in the days of our fore-fathers, they married more wives, had more children to farm for them but the life they lived then can't be compared to that of our generation where standard and way of living is on the increase each day. Besides, the teachings of the gospel hasn't been widely spread. Lets go to the beginning, it was one male and one female God created to be companion to each other before the multiplication. Men Let's save the future of tomorrow generation by sticking to one-woman and raising children from a proper home. You may never know the numbers of women you might have impregnated that never got to tell you. And your child is presently answering someone else name. Women, let's save tomorrow generation by leaving other people's husbands if you're such a woman and pray to God for your own man. Cheers!
We are not trying to say God made a mistake in saying to the man and woman to go and multiply. Even then, he just created them one man and one woman, not one man and 2,3.... women (Genesis 1:26-31), despite the need to multiply and increase. But today, we've got the house wives, mistresses/concubines/side-chicks stringing along in most relationships. It was a hard job for Adam to deal with one woman but today's men do not bother with such worries. Yet we worry why our generation has grown to be the way it is today.
We seem to forget, the woman led to the lost of the garden, Samson lost his strength because of a woman infact his encounter with women (Judges 14& 16), David killed because of a woman and had many children from these women that ended turning against him (2Samuel 11 & 15), Solomon was estranged to other gods because of women and lost the kingdom (1Kings 11). Why am I referring to the days of the bible is; today, so many men are losing their lives, senses, wealth because of their inability to stick to one woman and also polluting the society with children from such affairs, lacking the warmth of a true home. Haven't you heard in most research, such people constitute the entire folks causing calamity in our society today. And there's no shame in the act. The single gentleman will boast of the chains of girlfriends/baby mamas; the married man will boast of his chains of mistresses and you look around for that one-woman man but probably find none.
I agreed in the days of our fore-fathers, they married more wives, had more children to farm for them but the life they lived then can't be compared to that of our generation where standard and way of living is on the increase each day. Besides, the teachings of the gospel hasn't been widely spread. Lets go to the beginning, it was one male and one female God created to be companion to each other before the multiplication. Men Let's save the future of tomorrow generation by sticking to one-woman and raising children from a proper home. You may never know the numbers of women you might have impregnated that never got to tell you. And your child is presently answering someone else name. Women, let's save tomorrow generation by leaving other people's husbands if you're such a woman and pray to God for your own man. Cheers!
You make a lotta sense.
ReplyDeleteI believe there are many one-woman men around. Just that they are not much compared to the philanderers.
I believe in being with only my wife. There's more peace of mind and many other benefits I can't give up.
Being a one woman man can only be possible if more men are brought up with the fear of God and sound principles.
i believe monogamy is possible buh only within the confines of a christian marriage. christians that understand that to love u have to look up to God as a perfect example
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