Ladies: Rules to Keep your Heart Safe from Heart Break Stories.

As each day passes by and one grows older and more knowledgeable, I've come to realize how gullible women are. It's ok, they are trying to grow thick skin but somehow there's need to protect themselves even from themselves, before the brothers. So, here are a few rules to minimize the heart break stories
amongst the single women flock.

1) Never fall in love until you're sure his first and last name belongs to him: Before you give your heart to a man for safe keeping, be sure you know his name belongs to him by double checking any of his documents(driving license, work Id card etc) you can lay hands on. If it does correspond with the name he has given to you, then atleast you can be sure you know how to identify the man.

2) Never fall in love until you've stolen his last name: If the man is ready to steal your heart, he should be ready to let his name to be stolen. Please do not just give your heart because he's a promising prospective husband, so, did his last lady or even more ladies are thinking. Let all the loving come from him until you have stolen his last name but be nice and good to him.

3) Never fall in love if its easy for him to ask you to compromise Godly principle: You want No vows, no sex, and he agreed but suddenly started  pressurizing you after some time of dating with those pitiable sensually smoked look. Before it ignites fire make a turn because you'll get burnt and he won't be there to administer the healing balm because that was probably his mission. If he made a promise, he should be able to keep it.

4) Never fall in love because he depends on you: The fact that he always runs to you for help (be physical, spiritual, financial, academical etc) doesn't automatically gives you the license to think this must be the 'HIM' and before you realize what you've done; your heart is lost. And the discovering of you of not being the 'HER' to him will bring the hammer hard on your already lost heart.

 5) Never fall in love because he's delectable, makes you feel weak on the knee and ache in unbearable places: You've got to think and choose between giving strength to your knees, stopping momentary ache or a broken heart that may be too shattered to beat the same way again when the deed have been done.

6) Never fall in love when he finds it easy to kneel before you: A man's ego is as big as 'mighty Joe young' so you've got to double check if he keeps going downing on his knees to apologize at every mis-giving because lies comes easier than the truth. It just may be a way of warming his way into your heart and hacking it to bits and pieces.

7) Never fall in love when he's willing to tell you his life secrets at first date: Because those are not truly his life's secret but cooked up stories to make you feel he's ready to give his all to you. Wait until, he has succeeded and the true secret will begin to unfold and truly, you may not like what you'll find.

8) Never fall in love if he keeps talking about himself and wealth: That's a trait of selfishness, or too big an ego. And you may not be able to deduce his lies from his truth. It'll all become a mumble jumble.

9) Never fall in love because the sex is great: For clarity; practicing no vows, no sex is the easiest way to safe guard your heart. But just in case you've tasted the forbidden fruit and thinks this must be love, please its time for a rethink because great sex don't make great relationship but mutual respect, understanding,trust ....etc. Come to think of it, the moment doesn't last for long but the bond does. So, before bonding your heart with that of another man be sure to do so because you share something greater than sex..

10) Never fall in love when all he sees is your physical beauty: What's happens if something goes wrong with the physical beauty and all you have left is your soul and character?

11) Never fall in love because of his possession: You may think his wealth will compensate for the lack of the goodly qualities you desire in a man, have you heard? "money cannot buy you happiness.' and they say 'Rome wasn't built in a day.' This you may realize when you get to meet a man with the goodly qualities you desire and wish you could turn back the hands of time. Of course, I know no man is perfect. But the definition of perfection lies with individuals.

12) Never fall in love if he expects you to wear the trouser: This is not just about money but making important decisions in the relationship. Your opinion should definitely count but he should be man enough to stand his ground sometimes. If not, there may be more external interference than you can bear.

There! I will rest my fingers for now and if you do have a contrary view or wish to throw in more rules please do well to share. Thanks for stopping by. Cheers!