Tuesday, October 13, 2015

Relationship Series 5 - The Garage Sales.

Every relationship has what can make it stronger or weaker. Hence, the need to make a garage sales by selling off every form of negative attitudes and buying positive attitudes that can make a relationship stronger. Many people might have experienced disappointment in different forms, which may end up affecting or modifying their behaviour in their present relationship. The good, bad or ugly experiences in previous relationships may destroy the present ones. That's why there's need to make a garage sales of searching yourself deeply and letting whatever might have ruin previous relationships go and you need to also buy from the garage because some precious intricate just might be found in the midst of junks in a garage sales. The present or future sweetened or sparkles to brighten your lives together.


Its possible for you to spend all your time with someone and probably believe there's nothing that can tear you two apart until you meet someone else and sense that there is a greater connection between you than you've ever experienced. That's the story some people have to tell when they decide to break up a relationship/engagement and even marriages. But such situation can be avoided when one is able to recognised when someone part in his/her life story is over.  Please this should not be before 'the I do ceremony.' But before then, never beg anyone to stay with you against their will. Their leaving is no accident; It just means God got better plans for you. Whatever you need to do to build or let go to build a strong relationship, please do. That's the only way you can clear off the junks and make room for the treasures.

Yeah! might not be easy, especially after all you've been through. Someone has got to take the fall and it doesn't matter who. Just as you're feeling that way and scheming is may just be your next neighbour. Oh! Where you thinking you're the only one with a heartbreaking to tell? Sorry for the disappointment, there are more people with such experience than you'll ever know. So, no time wasting scheming for the numbers of men/women that will take the fall for your pain. But get up and start living again by giving yourself a good threat. Don't let whoever hurt have the satisfaction of doing more harm. Because in your quest for revenge, you may loose the real thing.

Study Guide: 2 Samuel 12:16-17,20; Ruth 1:16; Proverbs 13:20.
Have a pleasant night rest and don't forget "life is worth living and people worth loving." Cheers!

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