You are in a position where many will not truly understand the angle of your trials. What will be the focus; is the stigma of being a divorcee. Many will question you why you didn't try hard enough, put in more effort, swallow the bitter bills...just to ensure you stay married even when the sureness of your sanity or existence might be shortened, who cares? No one might but you should care. Now, you're unmarried and might end up losing some special people for this singular act or circumstances but ensure you do not loose yourself.
Yes, there will definitely be some alterations within/inward and outward. Whatever it is, might complicates your life further especially, if you didn't want or expected it to come to this. One of two ways is depression or hyperactivity(doing too many things at the same time and trying too hard to be actively happy). None is good for you because they drain the life out of you eventually. You will need to find a balance and be reflective.
Reflection gives a clear picture of what was, what is and what it'll lead to and what's needed and means to achieve it. There's nothing much you need but self love and value. Let everyone judge you but do not judge yourself. Just be reflective. If you find that, it'll bring a calm to the storm raging within you and make it give way to a bright life.
Remember you are the only one who truly understands the angle of your trials. Walk on, do not stand by. Life is still happening, so are you.
Cheers!
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