“These campaigns have always failed because you address the
wrong people. Address the married men. They are the ones who are very married
and going after single women. Society keeps turning a blind eye to what married
men are doing and speaking to single women. Your message should have been
"every married man needs to stay faithful to his own woman. Never desire a
single woman who is not married. Desire your God given wife. Married men, keep
your own commitment to the one you chose to marry and stop searching around for
single women." You talk about men like they are powerless and they can't
make a commitment to stay faithful to their wives.
I think alot of married women have to
start doing things sufficiently for their married men for them not to cheat. I’ve
noticed a change in a relationship after alot of women get married, just because
a man put a ring on it, it doesn’t mean you have to be a boring old wife. You have
to keep the fire burning. Both in the morning, don’t spend all day in a hair
net, dress up, geez wear a bra round the house, go out with your man, keep your
body intact, stop nagging all the time, give him sex whenever wherever, and
stop treating the kids like they the only ones in the house...a man is just an
over grown baby that also wants tender love and affection. If you think your
job as a married women is just bearing babies, and cooking food you’re
mistaken. Say ‘I love you, give him kisses, hold his hand. Many just wither
away because they’re married. Stop blaming other women for chasing your husband
away. And sometimes the other women actually save that man from abandoning you completely.
I’m not saying it’s right for him to cheat, or for her to cheat with him. I’m
saying look at that woman in the mirror".
A portion of the blame goes to everyone and I pray single
ladies will be able to yield to the above advice, the men to learn to be
faithful and women to be wise to handle her home well.
Cheers!
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