Hello Ladies and Gentlemen! Pick 'You' up.

A beautiful coat, when worn easily covers up what lies beneath. Until the coat is taken off, one cannot tell if what is underneath is as beautiful as the coat. Some people need to take off their fur coat, let’s get to know them.

A Piece for my Heart's Peace - 12

We live in a world, where sex has become the foundation for most relationships today.  The trend is; ‘have sex, get pregnant and get married’. Of course we do know that isn’t God’s intention for his unmarried children Hebrews 13:4 but modernization has set a new pace for the race of life which only those that subject themselves to grace can trace their way out.

Pills and Portions_ Babies and Abortions.

So, in a one time bid to make love you made a baby, I mean it was just a onetime pleasure ride and nothing was suppose to happen right?

A Piece for my Heart’s Peace.

I have heard some pastors talk about the most rampant sin among youths today, to be FORNICATION (pre-marital sex). And over the years, I’ve seen for myself with no need to design a questionnaire this indeed is true. Do you know what the bible says about ‘stolen meat?’ let me tell or remind you. Proverbs 9:17 Stolen waters are sweet and bread eaten in secret is pleasant.

Dilemma of Being Single at 30years: The Kind of Birthday Messages you may Get.

Its being quite a long time on Ono Pink Journal weekly series on dilemma of being single at 30years and above. But I decided to write something this week because of the kind of birthday wishes I noticed singles above 30 usually receive during birthday's celebration. There are words which appear in the messages but having the same meaning. And you can also read "dilemma of being single at 30years: the kind of church programmes you get invited to."

You are Single, not a String Puppet.

Ejiro was known by many as the most eligible bachelor in town, tall, handsome and savvy. So you can imagine it was a pleasant surprise when he started taking interest in Gina. She enjoyed every bit of the attention, the time spent together, the envious look on other ladies faces, he sure did know how to please a lady but he confused her because he never did officially ask her out and ladies were always hanging around him. He always reassured her that they were all just friends and admirers but he never reassured her of where she stood in his life. She accepted it, after all a piece of him was better than none of him."He would come around" She always told herself. So you can imagine the shock on her face when she found out he was getting married to a lady he met 6months ago.

Wrong Impressions Boys Still Goes Into Relationship or Marriage With.

WRONG IMPRESSIONS BOYS GOES INTO MARRIAGE WITH.
When we talk about why marriages fail, we usually apportion 80 per cent of the blame on the women being the home maker or builder..
Now, lets take a look into some things that boys usually do and goes into marriage with that notion that it is their right..
These things are wrong but most people don't see it that way. Yeah! Wrong impressions.
These wrong impressions are among the things that easily destroy most relationships and marriages and they include:

Ladies: How To Recognize Men That Are Wolves in Sheep Clothing (WISC) in Relationships.

As the day goes by, more new ministerial content are just building up in TPJ's house. Even I know not what to expect. Thanks to God almighty. This article may or may not agree with you but I'll oblige you to kindly read to the end.

Ladies: Reasons You Should Be Married Before You Hit 30.

First of all; hey! I know what came into your mind. *winks* we aren't going down low but stepping up. Well, to clear the air, so that, we can breathe and read with ease, this article is not about single ladies that are in their 30's, already in a relationship, engaged or believing God for a spouse because God is a perfecter of all good things. But for the ladies below 30 that think life is on a stand still for them. They've got all the time in the world to be choosy/picky and breaking hearts or jumping from Mr John to Jones bed, murdering innocent babies because of their carelessness. Time is like an express train, waits for no one. Now we will examine the reasons under three categories: societal, medical and personal reasons as follows:

Snap Out of it - Heartbreak Hangover!

It is Thursday, our usual day of snapping out of issues that we deal with from time to time. Today we'll look at heartbreak hangover by examing the story of a dear friend. Its with her permission I share this. Didn't want to because of the closeness but she insisted. Hoping someone (lady) will get to learn from her foolishness as she has asked me to refer to what happened to her. I've read and heard about stories of how single ladies and gentlemen tends to deceive each other but I never had a close call until now. Its a terrible situation to find out all you hold dear to you in a relationship is nothing but a mirage. The story thus:

The Dilemma of Being Single at 30years and Above - The Gentleman and His Strings of Ladies.

Tuesday it is, so, lets roll with the dilemma of being single at 30 years and above. The view is from the gentleman side. When above 30 and no wedding invitation is forth coming, different people tends to decide for you.

Lol! Reasons Slim/Skinny Single Ladies at 30 Need to Add Some Weight.

The heat about the election results is on the increase and every one is helping to fan the flame. Well, here's something to cool down the temper. Reasons for skinny single ladies at 30years and above to add some weight. Oshee!

The Dilemma of Being Single at 30 years and Above.

Welcome to TPJ weekly series of the dilemma of singles at 30years and above. Hope the week started on a good footing? And do have in mind your attitude towards life issue will determine the altitude you'll attain.

Today's dilemma:

The Dilemma of Being Single at 30 Years and Above.

Life as a single at 30 is one phase many don't appreciate getting to or crossing over. Some Ladies with the sentiment of not finding Mr Right because desperation crops in, blinding objective decisions. A colleague of mine once said "getting married after 30 is only possible, if you crossed 30 being in a relationship with the man." Even that, will take some prayer and fasting lol! Choi! What about the people getting married way after 30 and building an awesome home because of years of maturity and patient learning in the process of waiting and hoping. I wondered if she hadn't seen any?

Friday.com - Questionable Questions Ladies Ask.

Yeah it's Friday.com! All through the month of February, we had a good time writing about questionable questions gentlemen ask on first dates. This month, my beam is focusing on the ladies. So let's take a dive and see what we can find. And for every wrong question, I will suggest the right question.

The Dilemma of Being Single at 30 Years and Above III

Today I wish to just share a Facebook post by Ravishing Ichabod Crane on this dilemma. LOL:
'To God who made me, I'm hanging up on the next family member or childhood neighbour that says "Sheye, go and marry." This is like the 90th time this February alone.... Haba! Marriage na by force sef? People still live normal lives without a spouse you know. When my time comes, my time don come be that. Please let's leave that to my destiny. Lol! I'm enjoying my single life and making the best use of my time.'

Between The Guy Who Wants You & The Guy Who Wants Your Body

 All the Ladies this is about you-  Enjoy the conversation Between the Guy Who Wants You for you and the One Who Wants Your Body.

The Singles World II

In a previous post, we took a look at the singles world and its
vulnerability. Today, let's examine that same vulnerability in a
metaphoric way. The single's world can/should be likened to a house
with a leaking roof. Everything (the heat, water and dust) gets into
it. And if the leakage isn't mended in time, it may lead to the house
crumbling. People may think the only way to mend this, in the singles
world is through marriage, forgetting that the world of marriage has

The Dilemma of Being Single at 30 Years and Above

The life of a single man/lady at the dreaded age 30, especially for ladies, is enviable *winks*. Because you get to be the centre of the attention of anyone/everyone that cares, interceding in prayers for that glorious wedding. In comedian Gordons’s voice, "Nor be joke ooo!”. LOL!

The Singles World

The singles world is the most vulnerable place of existence. There, everyone gets exploited: ladies for sex and gentlemen for money. It is a common knowledge at the sight of an attractive single lady,