The Dilemma of Being Single at 30 Years and Above.

Life as a single at 30 is one phase many don't appreciate getting to or crossing over. Some Ladies with the sentiment of not finding Mr Right because desperation crops in, blinding objective decisions. A colleague of mine once said "getting married after 30 is only possible, if you crossed 30 being in a relationship with the man." Even that, will take some prayer and fasting lol! Choi! What about the people getting married way after 30 and building an awesome home because of years of maturity and patient learning in the process of waiting and hoping. I wondered if she hadn't seen any?

As for the gentlemen, it is believed it's the time to select one lady after another, in the name of making choices. Well, I can't say it's all of them but substantially a large number, especially if he has got some cash to spare or throw around. Then the mid 30 strikes and suddenly he realizes his wife has been married by someone else, because he was too busy been blinded by physical qualities that seems to expire with time. So, their unmarried state creeps into the late 30's. At this stage, anything close to what he needs in a woman will do for a wife. Although, some were busy trying to make money, forgetting time waits for no one. Now he's got a dilemma of a woman marrying him for that sole reason.

Then comes the "Match Makers" willing to hook you up with any Tom, Dick and Harry or Joy, Joyce and Joyous. Your desired qualities in a man/woman should be overlooked because it is believed you're short of choices. After all, you'd have been long married if you've had one. And when you eventually let them know you've got a choice (because your God says so in Isaiah 34:16; Proverb 18:22), some pick offence and blatantly tell you how foolish you are. But hey! Hold steady! Get it right or don't try getting in because you may find yourself getting out sooner than later. Single or Married, just remember life is worth living to the fullest. And the series continues next week, Cheers!