A Piece for my Heart's Peace - 20: To the Divorced Woman.

Previously on a piece for my heart's peace kindly click here. Now, to the Divorced Woman:

David Oyedepo Jnr and Wife Celebrates 10 years Together.

The words of Kemi Oyedepo

A Piece for my Heart's Peace - 14

We live in a society today where men's comfort is dependent on the acceptability that women are to help shoulder their responsibilities. It doesn't matter if the shoulders are wide enough or well muscled to handle this.  However, that won’t be a big deal if some man hadn’t added the role of his woman been a punching bag to show how manly he is. Afterall, the bags in the gym feel no pain.

Treats from Aged Couple Love Trove.

My old schoolmate shared photos of her aged grandparents that wowed me with these words “Today, my people crush are my grandparents. They have grown old in grace, in health and in joy. I'm grateful to God for them. Look how happy they are. Meet Papa Oroshegbo 1 and Mama D Ma. My grandpa is actually the oldest man in the village, and my smile came from Mama.”

Where should the Flame of Cheating Blame go?

The epidemic of infidelity in relationships has truly eaten deep into many homes and motivational speaker, Perseverance Chamunokara shared a post on her Facebookpage (photo above) to sensitise women with focus on single ladies and wrote “EVERY WOMAN DESERVES TO BE WITH HER OWN MAN.  NEVER DESIRE A MAN WHO IS TAKEN, LET HIM KEEP HIS COMMITMENT TO THE ONE HE CHOSE TO MARRY AND WAIT PATIENTLY FOR YOUR OWN TO FIND YOU!” But her followers defied and chose to apportion the blame to everyone. Read their responses after the cut  

The Refractor of the Ex-factor.

Recently, a friend of mine drew my attention to this in an article she wrote recently talking about the essence of marriage. Click here to read if you missed it. How much the wish to have married an ex makes up the bulk of the issues some married couples are having today.

How to Avoid Marital Anion Through Opinion.

So many times I wonder how difficult is it to try see reasons with others way of thinking? And I've come to understand when two people cannot agree on any issue, pride has grown a tap root into their mind and heart. However, it's very important to bend a little until there's a meeting point of different opinions. The word for it, is understanding. This excerpt from a Family Life Class Teaching by Kemi Oyedepo should help couples understand how to avoid generating marital anion  (negativity) through opinion. 

Single Nigerian Ladies will Want to Learn from this.......

 

Well, some opinion are better left unvoiced. To every single Nigerian lady looking to get married this is one mistake one needs to avoid. Keep the compliment sweet and sincere and the opinion to yourself.

Meet the Malawian Woman who became a District Chief, broke up 850 and Banned Child Marriage.

Child marriage is currently ravaging many parts of the Africa nations and few have risen up to the occasion of putting an end to it.

Real Experience: She couldn’t let the ‘Mess’ become the ‘Message’ in her Marriage.

I love the world we live in because of the uniqueness of humans. Another man’s meat they say is another man’s poison. Well, I have two real experiences to share on marital relationship today. One will make you sad and the other if I am able to express it properly should make you laugh. Both are centred on fouling the air (fart) which is jokingly called ‘mess’.  How that ruined relationships. I will go will the sad story first.

Marring the Marital Vows.

I have come to understand one thing in the business world, in every merger the two or more companies will lose their identities to assume a new one. But when one is taking over the other; the one being taken over will lose its identity. Yeah, my business understanding, I stand to be corrected if wrong. So, what’s the point in this? I will come shortly to that but as my usual way; let’s still do alittle bit of analogy.

Omotola Jalade Sense of Humour got the Better of her as she goes on 20th Anniversary Trip with Husband.

Honestly, until now, I didn't know the actress has got this hilarity nature. Well, I believe it has got to be so when you've spent 20 years with a man giving his best to help you actualise your dreams without restriction. Happy Anniversary to them!! See what she wrote after the cut. 

Two Links that shouldn't be Missing in your Marriage - Kemi Oyedepo.

David and Kemi Oyedepo

"GENUINE love & laughter! Hey! There is just no substitute to both in a home! Don't let your relationship/marriage/family be without them. With both, resting on the foundation of Jesus Christ, you can tackle anything! As we keep doing what is required of us, may the Lord keep filling our hearts with genuine love❤❤ & our mouths with laughter😀😂!."

Popular Gospel Music Minister, Israel Houghton Annouces Divorce after 20years of Marriage, says he Failed and Sinned. '

Famous gospel minister Israel Houghton took to his Facebook page to make his divorce from his wife of 20years public. He blamed himself for falling short of God's grace and giving in to infidelity. And as much as they have tried to patch issues over the past 5years, nothing seems to work and they both have decided to go their separate ways but choose to remain friends for the sake of their children. If you're wondering about who he is then sing this song 'you are alpha and omega, we worship you our Lord, you are worthy to be praised.......' with the New Breed. Read what he wrote after the cut.

‪‎Ese Is Not Aisha: Tension Mounts in Bayelsa over Kidnapped of 13-Year-Old Girl, Forced Conversion and Marriage by an Hausa Muslim Lover.

#‎FreeEseOruruNow‬ ‪#‎EseIsNotAisha‬ is the present fight over the kidnapped, forced conversion and marriage of a 13year old girl by an Hausa Muslim lover.

1. On 12 August, 2015, 13 years old Ms Ese Rita Oruru did not return home

 2. Efforts made by the parents to locate Ese led to one Mohammed (aka Daidi) who informed the mother that one Mr. Yinusa (alias Yellow) had taken the said Miss Ese Rita Oruru to Kano with an intention to convert her into Islam, recruit her into an Islamic fanatical Group and marry her.

Comedian Ushbebe Shares Photos of his Earlier days with Wife as they Celebrate 2-years Anniversary.

The popular comedian and on air personality, Justice Nuagbe shared photo of his earlier days with his wife amongst other memorable photos as they celebrate two years wedding anniversary.  Happy anniversary to them.

How is it her fault? He kissed her because you asked him to marry her on behalf of you.

Hmm! Some of you may not be aware of the arranged marriage, whereby the groom will be absent from his wedding ceremony and a representative from his family will marry the wife on behalf of him. Because, he's oversea and can't be physically present or someone will represent the wife, if she's the one that can't make it. In some cases, both the bride and the groom might be absent and a representative from both families will carry out the marital rights.

Hey Woman! You've got to Ask these of the Lord, if you Want the Success of your Dream Home.

In our world today, there are so many things women have reconciled themselves to. Despite that; there's still a tiny flicker of hope that one's marriage should be different. If every other man is cheating, smoking, drinking etc, one wishes hers won't be part of such. But then as a woman wishing isn't just enough, you have to take some steps and ask of the Lord for the following qualities.

Wrong Impressions Boys Still Goes Into Relationship or Marriage With.

WRONG IMPRESSIONS BOYS GOES INTO MARRIAGE WITH.
When we talk about why marriages fail, we usually apportion 80 per cent of the blame on the women being the home maker or builder..
Now, lets take a look into some things that boys usually do and goes into marriage with that notion that it is their right..
These things are wrong but most people don't see it that way. Yeah! Wrong impressions.
These wrong impressions are among the things that easily destroy most relationships and marriages and they include:

Ladies: Reasons You Should Be Married Before You Hit 30.

First of all; hey! I know what came into your mind. *winks* we aren't going down low but stepping up. Well, to clear the air, so that, we can breathe and read with ease, this article is not about single ladies that are in their 30's, already in a relationship, engaged or believing God for a spouse because God is a perfecter of all good things. But for the ladies below 30 that think life is on a stand still for them. They've got all the time in the world to be choosy/picky and breaking hearts or jumping from Mr John to Jones bed, murdering innocent babies because of their carelessness. Time is like an express train, waits for no one. Now we will examine the reasons under three categories: societal, medical and personal reasons as follows: