The Man/Woman he or she is Vs who you see when in Love.

Love has a way of adding bright spots to dark shades, keeping one from the harsh reality of what truly might exist. Basically love views things differently from the ordinary eyes. He or she might truly be special but others just cannot see it or he or she is not truly special and you just cannot see it. Either way, love just gives different meaning to things when it fills the heart and blind the eyes.

My Non-Time Keeping but Kind-Hearted Friend.

Today was an eventful day, not because of what I did but because of what transpired between me and who I did it with. My friend is a fashion designer, (if you like say na tailor, na you sabi lol!) and a makeup artist. Basically, she does everything that makes women look beautiful and glamorous. I hope I’ll get paid for this advert later. Actually, I already got paid How? Let’s start the story by rewinding back to yesterday.

Snap out of it! Don't Test with Sex.

Love is never wrong we only love the wrong person. Sex incapacitate one from accepting the truth. Rather, excuses are made to cover up the excesses. And love is often confused with sexual desires 2 Samuel 33

If you have to Kiss me...

If you have to kiss me, I have just one request, be pure. This I asked for your sake and not mine. The intent in which individuals exchange a kiss will determine the emotions it’ll evoke and the result it’ll yield. The fact someone kissed you doesn’t mean there’s a love lost between you two. Judas can tell the best story of that in Mark 14:45 and worst of it in Matthew 27:3-5.

Hey! Don't Act out the Attraction.

Hey!  Have you ever been strongly attracted to someone that all you can think of is how it’ll feel to get tangled with the sheets on the bed? If yes, I’ve got this to tell you “don’t act out the attraction” and this is my ‘why’ you shouldn’t play out your imagination. 

A Piece for my Heart's Peace - 14

We live in a society today where men's comfort is dependent on the acceptability that women are to help shoulder their responsibilities. It doesn't matter if the shoulders are wide enough or well muscled to handle this.  However, that won’t be a big deal if some man hadn’t added the role of his woman been a punching bag to show how manly he is. Afterall, the bags in the gym feel no pain.

These to Wrought some Thoughts.

Some things you can’t turn away from yet got no words/way to caption, quantify or qualify them. Here is a random photo and story to wrought some of your thoughts - jolly, skeptic ones or otherwise. It is all your choice. Let us start with the strory.

Snap Out of it - 1

This evening let’s look at some unconventional and relational definitions of foolishness from happenings around me. As much as I try to understand people from their point of views, sometimes I wonder the sensibility in some of the things they or I do, hence, this journey tonight.  Please pardon me for the choice of word, I just couldn’t find a better way to drive home my point. So, let’s define... 

Treats from Aged Couple Love Trove.

My old schoolmate shared photos of her aged grandparents that wowed me with these words “Today, my people crush are my grandparents. They have grown old in grace, in health and in joy. I'm grateful to God for them. Look how happy they are. Meet Papa Oroshegbo 1 and Mama D Ma. My grandpa is actually the oldest man in the village, and my smile came from Mama.”

Friday Series: Sex, love and sin.

Three things come into play when it comes to relationship with individuals(opposite sex) and the one they share with God. Now, someone may think why not love before sex? Well, not in this present generation because they have failed to realize love and sex are not equivalent. 

Friday Series: Get Ruin or Grin Over........?

Hello, I've missed you too much not to improvise by blogging with phone while I try to fix my PC or get a new one. I haven't decided on that yet. Especially, with so much cash flow. Uhmm! That's me being positive. Now to Friday Series which is a sequel to my last post...

Five Suggestive Way to Pick Up after a Break Up.

It is not always to pick up after a break up especially, if you’d put everything into the relationship. The pain could be emotional, physical and even spiritually felt. So, I hope these five suggestions will help mellow down the pain.

When a Legion of Religion Believers Share the same view but...

This article was first written by a Muslim; Garba Umar Farouk and edited by me to encompass how other religion share the same view on a particular issue being a Muslim, Christian or Traditionalist but.......

The Chip to Strengthen Relationships.

Building ‘great relationships’ takes time and energy and not cost you material but also immaterial things. This is because the materials possess the ability to feel and chose where and how to fit in or not.

Ways not to Wiggle and get Tangled in Sexual Relationship.

We know that it takes two to tango, so it is when it comes to mating. However, some ladies have had reasons to complain about their bodies been violated at one point in time. They necessarily didn’t use the word ‘rape’ although that’s what it should be called but viewed it as taking out of context the general belief that ‘a woman’s no is a actually a yes’. And believe, she wants it the hard way, putting up a fight being a turn on.

Friday Series: How could Relationship Destroy Friendship - 2

Previously on Friday Series we looked at the above topic in one context, click here if you missed it. Today, we will view it from another context based on the true life story as shared on social media sometime ago of how a good friendship was destroyed when a new relationship was forged. This story will probably leave you with many questions to wonder about what the answer should be just as did me but then when it comes to relationship, friendship might not be able to withstand the hold.

Friday Series: How could Relationship Destroy Friendship?

Friday is here, and the question above have got many ways to be viewed but we will start from one angle and see how far it takes us; The potency of the bond shared between individuals in friendship and in a relationship could be just as strong but on different context. In friendship there’s a limit/bound to how far one could go in commitment but in a relationship bounds are supposed to be broken and exceeded.

Friday.com: Could Romance wear a Mask?

Okay Friday don come! As usual let’s take a look at dicing relationship matters. I don’t know how right I am to say this; there’s the belief that when someone wants something from his or her partner they tend to be extra/extremely caring and all lovey dovey.

Which of these Men Actions Deserve a Kiss or Hiss?

I’d like us to loosen up a little with this post today. We do know men have their different ways of expressing their feelings or the deep one called ‘love’ towards the lady in their lives. So let’s view which of these men’s action you will give a kiss or hiss to. We don’t want to look at the extreme kindness or badness. But some dicing circumstances. Here we go!

Friday.com: Could there be a Cleaving without Leaving?

I was right in front of my PC trying to yet find the lost words to continue the post to express the root of every truth in a man and woman relationship which is centred on my much respect for the spirit of the institution of no graduation. The ability to have a clear picture of the nature of marriage as a choice or an act of nature visited upon humans, when I bumped into Kemi Oyedepo post which cuts clean to the chase that could clear your misunderstanding. Read post after the cut.