Where should the Flame of Cheating Blame go?

The epidemic of infidelity in relationships has truly eaten deep into many homes and motivational speaker, Perseverance Chamunokara shared a post on her Facebookpage (photo above) to sensitise women with focus on single ladies and wrote “EVERY WOMAN DESERVES TO BE WITH HER OWN MAN.  NEVER DESIRE A MAN WHO IS TAKEN, LET HIM KEEP HIS COMMITMENT TO THE ONE HE CHOSE TO MARRY AND WAIT PATIENTLY FOR YOUR OWN TO FIND YOU!” But her followers defied and chose to apportion the blame to everyone. Read their responses after the cut  

Note to my Single Ladies: Graduating Rules from being 'Single to Married' by Rita Oviri

NOTE TO MY SINGLE LADIES . Before you start being miserable about not getting married at your age. First have you take out time to examine yourself on what could be wrong about you. Considering the fact that you are beautiful, sexy and intelligent and yet you're still not married. And getting even more miserable is when your ugly looking neighbours are all married and you "Queen Elizabeth " still single? And sometimes you tell yourself but I cook better and I can do house chores very well. My dear stop stressing your head. Any girl can cook n do all that but not everyone is a wife material. Please join me in this expository walk. In Proverbs 18:22 the bible said he that findeth a "WIFE " has found a good thing.

Single Ladies! Before the Ring is on the Finger, Ring this into Your Heart.

All my ladies that understand their role as ladies and expect their men to threat them such should get in here hehehe! Let's rub minds together.

We've been informed long ago, that marital problems come from the way a lady handles the home. We are the home maker/builder, men are just the field workers. So, if any marriage hits the rock, the lady is apportion a large chunk of the blame. Come on! Don't frown at me, its the take of man and the entire society/generation we belong. Well, not doubting the fact that ladies are doing their best to let the men know it isn't proper any more to leave the whole work for them but that's not the bone of contention today.