Friday.com: Could there be a Cleaving without Leaving?

I was right in front of my PC trying to yet find the lost words to continue the post to express the root of every truth in a man and woman relationship which is centred on my much respect for the spirit of the institution of no graduation. The ability to have a clear picture of the nature of marriage as a choice or an act of nature visited upon humans, when I bumped into Kemi Oyedepo post which cuts clean to the chase that could clear your misunderstanding. Read post after the cut. 

"It bothers me when a wife or husband is kind to others but not their own"- Kemi Oyedepo.

Kemi Oyedepo is the wife of the son of Bishop David Oyedepo of the Living Faith Church (Winners Chapel). Her relationship series, especially on building and having a great marriage has helped many couples Crisis proof their family. This is an excerpt from one of her teachings.

Kemi Oyedepo Spells Out the Roles of Husbands To their Wives.

 

 Kemi Oyedepo is the wife of the first son of the founder of the Living Faith Church, David Oyedepo jnr. She has helped and still helping many families to 'Crisis Proof their families.' And also, to keep singles from making mistakes in taking marital decisions.

"It's important that as a husband, you take time to invest in your wife. What do you do to build her up? How do you help her grow spiritually and otherwise? What do you do to challenge her? What do you do to affirm her? How do you help her weaknesses? She is not the only one who should be helping you. Don't marry her and just leave her to herself; you must pour into her and her progress must be evident for all to see. You can't be moving forward spiritually, intellectually, and otherwise while she is still on the same spot since the day you met her. That is unfair and it shouldn't be ok by you. It says a lot about you as her husband! Don't be the one tearing her down! The making of your wife is in your hands so do something.