Of course, only the woman can tell who the father of her baby is. And whoever she points the finger at becomes that father. It doesn’t matter if she had sex with three men in one day.
I will narrate these two stories that I pray will help you zip up instead of sheltering because shelters sometimes do have leaking roofs.
A young lady had a serious boyfriend and a sugar daddy both willing to marry her. But she was buying time for her boyfriend to get a good job and be able to take care of her needs before quitting the sugar daddy relationship. However, she got pregnant. Unfortunately, she had slept with both men unprotected same day and couldn’t be sure of who the father is.
She decided
to marry the sugar daddy because he’s the one that could afford to take care of
the bills. The funny part is, the men do not know about her having sex with them
same day even though they suspect her of double dating.
And until there's eventuality, the true paternity of that child will never be revealed.
Also, a
young girl that’s mentally imbalance (partially imbecile to say) live in a
neighbourhood where the men took advantage of her situation and took turns to sleep
around with her. A young man Dan (not real name) also took part in this escapade and
later, the girl announced she was pregnant and Dan is the father.
He couldn’t
believe it, especially; it was no secret quite a good number of men around had
slept with her. Well, she insisted and his parents decided to take care of the
girl. But, he moved out of his home.
The girl was
well looked after until she went into labour. Dan was called but he was as
angry with his parents as much as at when they initially took the pregnant girl
in. He actually prayed the baby should die because he couldn’t bear having his
first child this way.
Sadly, his
prayer got answered and the baby died shortly after birth. The lady went back
to her home a month after the incident. As for Dan, he’s the one helping to
tell others to keep their zipper up if they do not want complication in their
relationships.
Dan wasn’t
the richest of the men that had sex with the young girl. So, among all the
reasons for the girl to say he’s the father you should not bother considering
wealth.
So to all
baby papa’s or daddies, you just might want to review your paternity status
inorder not to be like Marcus in Tyler Perry Movie “for better, for worse” who
paid for child care over 11 years for a child who wasn’t his. 1 Corinthians 6:18 Flee fornication. Every
sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that committeth fornication
sinneth against his own body.
Again in the
words of my dear brother Gabriel Akinyomi “sex is a long thing, forget about
the spiritual implication been revealed and the actual motion involved. The way
a man excitedly call or expects a call from the lady he had a date with and liked to
have more than that, so does he wait for a call from the lady he had sex with but do not
want to go further than that. However, the emotion attached to the waiting is that
of anxiety and not excitement.
When the
call eventually comes through, he’d hope the discussion will be neutral and on
simple issues until the bomb shell of pregnancy is dropped. That will take 9
months to live through his sexual act. But it won’t end there, the child will be born and that will be a constant reminder of how lengthy sex can truly
be”.
The aspect
of getting infected through sexual act and having to live with it, is a story
for another day.
Hence, doing
it the Lord’s way is always and will always be the best option for the long
duration of sex. 1 Thessalonians 4:3 For
this is the will of God, even
your sanctification, that ye should abstain from fornication: Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed
undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge.
Cheers!
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