There are more abusive relationships that we are aware of because people live pretentious lives or what Fela meant as 'smiling and suffering.' A man being abusive is not just by beating up his woman. There are worst injuries inflicted through other means of abuse which could be emotional/mental/psychological. This has driven some women to psychiatric homes, yet they still return back to that relationship.'Have you ever felt the need to strangle a loved one until she realizes that relationship will either kill her or she'll become a killer herself?' Everyone sees how wrong she's being treated, except her. Or she does but too helpless to walk away. The question then is why?
