Most people have come to understand that marriage is like Discovery Channel. Where different characters unfold everyday (the strange, hilarious, gruesome, lovable ones). It doesn't matter the number of days, weeks, months or years, you courted before the "I do ceremony" there are lots to learn after the marriage celebration. At that time, the relationship has entered a fresh channel/new phase. If you're musically incline: you'll know there's a difference between listening and dancing to a song and actually singing the song. During the years of courtship or otherwise, you're just listening and enjoying the song. After marriage you get to sing the song and also dance to its melody. Maybe you should go with "I don marry now" #Godwin lol.
