Saturday, August 18, 2018

A Piece for my Heart's Peace - 17


It is a long while now, and I thought it will take much longer before I get back to writing a piece for my heart’s peace. However, it is not to be because I am presently wondering while some folks will choose to get it wrong or twisted in love story. It is simple as it gets. If a man trusts you enough to
put you in the family way/make you the mother of his child (children) , he should trust you enough to make you his wife. Being a mother is a more difficult job than being a wife. He expects you to take the responsibility and guide someone in forming good or terrible concepts about life. That I write is a hard task compared to being responsible for a grown man with already formed concept. Yeah, this post is not about some teenage misguided romance but about those ready or not to be husbands or daddies all in the making of modern life/ways.

Funnily, some ladies fall for it, hoping someday, he’d make her, his wife and when that day never comes, another single and bitter parent emerges in its place. Do not start with the story that it is unplanned, because life itself is made up of many unplanned events.  With the plans you’ve got going for you, you can’t be completely sure if they will unfold until they unfold. Besides, no one plans for natural disaster but that won’t stop a storm from bringing the flood or quake from shaking the earth. Things happen unplanned and strategies are put in place for survival. In this case if you can shake her up, be ready to swallow the spill over. What if the lady chose to trap him with pregnancy? That only happened because he walked into it. Remember, the hunter gets to take any animal caught in his trap home. It is just a bit bizarre because of the role reversal. Well, it is part of a changing world you help create. Again if you can shake her up be ready to swallow the spill over.


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