The Act of Standing Firm in a Sinking Pose.

Life is full of many challenges that can easily make one lose focus of which direction we are supposed to follow. Hard, when every step one takes seems to sink one deeper into harder times. Yet, we still need to remember what or where the solid ground lies. In the hope of searching, many keep trying until their feet finally lands on the firm ground. But some have been swallowed up with so much they couldn’t handle and now hope the ground, upon which they stand becomes solidified because it’s solidity can keep them from sinking.

Snap Out of it: Live Life in the Real World.

One preacher said; 'Friends, if I were God your body would always be 18, you could eat anything and maintain perfect weight; your middle-aged wife would have the face and figure of an angel; your mid-life husband, thick hair and wash board abs; your youngsters as intelligent as Einstein; your teens cooperative, logical and consistent. Temperature would be 72 always; snow would be warm, melting overnight; and there'd be no nasty people.

Lol! Heart Check, Men be Sincere.

Lol! Atleast you can afford to tell yourself the truth.

Hey Lady: Five Reasons You Should Get Over That Break Up.

Oh! The happily ever after life you dreamed to have with him came crashing down before you could even wake up from it. And you just can't stop thinking what you did wrong that drove him away or what you could have done right to keep him. Well, he's gone so you need to let him out of your life in order to:

What Has Sex Become in Today's World?

Sex is now a tool/weapon between lovers and even strangers in getting whatever they can from one another (money, emotional satisfaction, information etc). The comfort needed during sex is also growing thin because male or female are ready to do it without the emotional attachment (just a means to an end). It is expected when two people profess to love each other, automatically that should be expressed in sexual intercourse. If you don't, it means your love isn't so true after all (that is now becoming an acceptable common knowledge). As a result of this some people succumb to it, just to keep their relationship.

The way a man/woman choose to have sex with you, goes a long way in telling you how valuable you and sex are to them. Does he/she seek out the softness of a foam for your comfort or anything will be just fine? Let's examine some sexual process/method and you're free to agree or disagree with me or within you. But please be sincerely sincere when at it.
- Rush in and Rush out: There's no preamble with this process. The man/woman just want to grab that which is made available/what he or she is paying for as fast as possible and be on his/her way. This they can do anywhere so long some privacy is offered. The pleasure is only felt at the end of the process.
- Cover Some Meters: Want to grab but while at it, still desires to make it pleasurable. Its usually between acquaintance, who find themselves in a compromising sexual position (attracted to each other but no relationship). As much as possible, they'd take time to create some memories that, they won't be in a rush to forget. Even though they need to rush the process before they'd get caught. And some means of softness for their comfort is seeked out. Some times, this process still fit in between deceitful folks.
- Peel off the Layers: Both lovers take their time to experience each other move/touch. Its more of a worship trance. Comfort is not only felt in the foam but in each other arms.

Basically, we must understand that from time to time, any of the three process can be carried out amongst lovers, but the frequency of a particular process, should tell you where exactly you belong in his/her life. Or how valuable you are to him/her. Does he seek to pleasure you? Does he/she seek your comfort? Is he/she ready to hang on until you both find satisfaction? What you have together is it just about the sex? Are questions that need to be answered.

In all of this, what sex is or will be amongst spouse is determined by how frequent they seek for each other comfort. And the scripture is still what is needed to guide us right in living a sexually fulfilling life (got you! It still comes back to God). And not be part of those using sex as a weapon. Also, not to be devalued by anyone through sex. Anyway, married couples are the ones at liberty *winks* (sorry to burst your bubbles) Proverb 5:17-19. Sex is/will always be a means of worship between couples, if only, its given the right value. Especially by you, when you get there or that's already there. God still believes in us. Cheers!