The need to address psychological issues/emotional
instability (depression, substance abuse, personality disorder, phobia etc) has become a focal point in determining individuals’ wellbeing
because the world is evolving and people psychic is changing. There was a time
in this country when psychological issues were the least of our worries because
we believe we are very tough that even when we are made to suffer we still
could hold our smile (suffering and smiling); our skin so thick, when scrapped against or on a
rough edge, there will be no scratch. But “time changes yesterday” have become
the present predicament of the people.
The race of life is presently ‘fast and furious’. For
a slow down for a moment of fresh air, great will be the loss. So, it is with
the struggle to keep up. There is so much to do with and for our appearance which
could be based on our perception or that of others. As much as everyone tries
to ride with the tide, higher and greater it becomes daily for there’s a better
of every good thing someone owes and the best of every better. The constant in
all of these is the continuous ‘change’. Determining how much of this change
should become relevant in defining who one is is the concern of many. We must
then work on the determination to fit in with others or ride on one’s unique
pace.
Hence, the
reliability of one’s wellbeing is dependent on his/her workability but the
probability of the availability of the skill is presently low for most if not
everyone wants to fit in with the crowd and when lost becomes too difficult to
find. However, they’d drop dead rather than accept they’re lost. Many are
striving to put and keep up the appearance of how well they’re thriving
outwardly while inwardly the mind is on a wandering and endless journey of what
truly defines who they are. And sustainability of the emotional stability is
driven to or close to the edge and a kick will be all it will take to fall over
and be buried in the worries of life trouble.
Apart from the personal issues one has got to deal
with, the ill events of the world that could easily be made known to everyone
as a result of development is quite another matter to make one emotions fragile
enough to be incapacitated in being reasonable for the value of life is brought
low. How the different events both personal and worldly ones influence the
individuals, need to be evaluated from time to time. One cannot always be too
confident. One’s emotion can be unstable as a troubled water and we need
stability to keep up with all that is happening in the world today, to be
strong enough to handle issues and be who we are and not as others wish to see
us. Finding one’s self in every situation should be the focus than that which
will eventually fade away because as the world evolve so are the things we once
considered to be valuable.
The way different organizations send their employees
for training so should they be sent for psychological evaluations to help stay
stable emotionally. Because we can only see what is shown outwardly. If we are
to look inward we might be overwhelmed by what can be hidden behind the
beautiful smile on people’s faces. If possible have a psychologist on your
payroll or as a consultant. There’s more to one’s facial appearance.
As for everyone, from what is
happening in and around us, having someone (psychologist/psychotherapist) to help you find a
balance is the logical thing to do. If you need referral or more information just call 08060853558.
Cheers!!!
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